Because I post and share a lot of photos on social media, I often get asked how I find the time to photograph the things that I do. The answer is not all that complicated to give, but it can be pretty difficult to put into practice. It has a lot to do with priorities and what I call making days count rather than living life counting days.
It is far too easy to go through life counting days until whatever the next thing we are looking forward to will take place. And if we’re not doing that, we are counting the days until whatever we are in the midst of is over. While keeping track of when things will happen or when they will end is not necessarily a bad thing, the problem comes when our focus of counting days keeps us from living days that count.
It is not an easy journey, and for most people the step from counting days to days that count is precipitated by an event, or series of events, that cause them to see the uncertainty of life. And it’s not a decision that is made once and life is different from that point forward . . . no, for me at least, I have to decide often if I’m going to do something today that makes the day count. Because it’s a daily decision, and often multiple times in a day, it is not an easy path to walk. Many times the decision really rests on whether my choice for the day is about me or about someone else. I’ve found, that while it may not always look like a decision that would make the day count, basing the day’s choices on what helps others or makes them happy is much more likely to end up being a day that counts.
The photo below is from one of those days that count — it counts because it was spent with my family and brought joy to all of us. It’s also a good example of what it might take to make your days count. It was a last-minute, beautiful day opportunity and it required some sacrifices of time in getting work done that needed to be completed. But the point is that we didn’t focus on counting the hours of what needed to be done, but rather we focused on making the day count and dealing with the hours as needed. Yes, the climb up the dune to this overlook was difficult and the trip meant I would have to wake up very early the next morning to get work done, but the scene was spectacular and created a moment that helped to make the day count.
I pray that you would consider the people who are important to you, and even those that aren’t but maybe should be, and find ways to make your days together count rather than just spending your time counting days.