saul and david

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2 Samuel: Lesson 4 — A Deadly Feud

The following are discussion questions from a weekly study I am leading through the book of 2 Samuel.  We meet each Wednesday evening at the Deer Run Church of Christ.

 

A Man After God’s Own Heart:
The Good, The Bad, and The Ugly

A Study of the Book of 2 Samuel

Lesson 4 (A Deadly Feud)
2 Samuel 3:22-39

The Text:

  1. Where have David’s men been?  Who has been leading them?  How successful have they been?  What had taken place while they were gone?
     
  2. When he hears of what had happened while he was away, who does Joab go to?  What are his stated concerns?  What response does David have? 
     
  3. What does Joab have done?  What does Joab do when Abner returns?  Why?  How much of this was David aware of as it happened? 
     
  4. How does David react when he hears of what Joab did?  What is his wish, or prayer, for Joab’s house?  What was the difference between the deaths of Abner and Asahel?
     
  5. What did David require Joab and all those with him to do?  What did David do?  What statement did these actions make to the people?  How did these events make David feel as a leader?

     

  The Application:

  1. How focused are you on being successful at what you do?  What defines that success?  Does it ever seem like what you do causes you to miss things that are important?
     
  2. When you disagree with a decision you had no part of, how likely are you to go to the person responsible for the decision?  How thorough would you be with the real reasons for your concern?  Is an explanation or response from the “other side” important to you?
     
  3. Have you ever gone “behind the back” of an authority that you disagreed with to accomplish what you thought should have been done?  Would it have been helpful to hear the authority out before you acted?  What can be the problem of pursuing justice as you see it?
     
  4. How appalled/accepting are you of sin in the lives of the people closest to you?  Why? 
     
  5. How can you keep the wrong of others from discrediting you when it appears that you would benefit from the wrongdoing?  How does having to address sin in others make you feel?

  

Next Week: Look What I Did!
2 Samuel 4

 

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2 Samuel: Lesson 3 — Changing Sides

The following are discussion questions from a weekly study I am leading through the book of 2 Samuel.  We meet each Wednesday evening at the Deer Run Church of Christ.

 

A Man After God’s Own Heart:
The Good, The Bad, and The Ugly

A Study of the Book of 2 Samuel

Lesson 3 (Changing Sides)
2 Samuel 3:1-21

The Text:

  1. How well is the house of David and the house of Saul getting along?  What things take place over time?  Who seems to be the actual leader of the house of Saul?
     
  2. What does Saul’s son, Ish-Bosheth, accuse Abner of?  How does Abner respond to Ish-Bosheth?  What does Abner promise to do?  What is Ish-Bosheth’s response?
     
  3. What message does Abner send to David?  How does David respond?  What condition does he place on having a meeting?  What happens? 
     
  4. What does Abner say to the elders of Israel?  What does this statement say about the intentions, or desires, of those elders?  What promise of God does Abner remind the elders of?
     
  5. Who else does Abner confer with?  What was Abner’s purpose in travelling to Hebron?  What request does Abner put before David?  How does David respond?

  

  The Application:

  1. What conflicts exist in your life?  Are there extended conflicts between what you want and what God wants?  What effect does extended conflict have on you personally?  Who is the real leader of the opposition against you?
     
  2. Have you ever been accused of something that seemed to make absolutely no sense?  How does it make you feel?  Have seemingly outlandish remarks from someone ever brought you to the point of doing something you should have already done?
     
  3. When you realize you are on the wrong side of an issue, or relationship, how can you initiate changing sides?  What if changing to the “right side” has a condition or cost, are you still willing to change?
     
  4. Are there people who have followed you that are actually waiting for you to lead them in the way that is right?  What promises of God do you need reminded of? 
     
  5. How gracious are you in hearing out people who have opposed you?  How hard is it to be at peace with someone who has spent much of their life as your enemy?  What things make it easier or harder?

Next Week: A Deadly Feud
2 Samuel 3:22-39

 

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2 Samuel: Lesson 2 — Families Feud

The following are discussion questions from a weekly study I am leading through the book of 2 Samuel.  We meet each Wednesday evening at the Deer Run Church of Christ.

 

A Man After God’s Own Heart:
The Good, The Bad, and The Ugly

A Study of the Book of 2 Samuel

Lesson 2 (Families Feud)
2 Samuel 2

The Text:

  1. What does David ask of the LORD?  Where is David when he asks this?  What is the LORD’s response?  Where does David go and who goes with him?  What happens there?
     
  2. What is David told about the men of Jabesh Gilead?  How does he respond to this information?  What is his message to them?
     
  3. Who was Abner and what had been his relationship with Saul?  What is his idea of who should lead Israel?  What does he do?
     
  4. Who gathers at Gibeon?  What is the conflict between the two groups?  What does Abner suggest they do?  What is the outcome?  Who wins?
     
  5. Who is involved in the pursuit of Abner?  What happens?  As the pursuit continues, what does Abner say to Joab?  What response does Joab give?  What was the outcome of this exchange of words?

  

The Application:

  1. Are there things in your life that you need to ask God if now is the time to do them?  Do you consistently ask God for specific direction?  What do you need to seek God about this week?
     
  2. How do you respond when you hear of people doing things that are good and right?  Are there ways that you could thank, or show kindness, to people in your life that have done the right thing just because it was the right thing — expecting and receiving no reward?
     
  3. Are there things that you tend to decide to do your way no matter what?  What does that attitude do to your relationship with God?
     
  4. Do you ever end up in the same place as someone you are in conflict with?  How do you feel?  What should you do?  What is the problem with the “may the best person win” method of conflict resolution? 
     
  5. When you find yourself in conflict, how hard is it to call it off?  Have you ever had to “agree to disagree” — even when you were overwhelmingly in the right?  What does a continued fighting among Christians do to the cause of Christ?  Does knowing that give you motivation to be a more active peacemaker?

  

Next week:  Changing Sides
2 Samuel 3:1-21

 

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2 Samuel: Lesson 1 — A New Mourning

The following are discussion questions from a weekly study I am leading through the book of 2 Samuel.  We meet each Wednesday evening at the Deer Run Church of Christ.

A Man After God’s Own Heart:
The Good, The Bad, and The Ugly

A Study of the Book of 2 Samuel

Lesson 1 (A New Mourning)
2 Samuel 1

The Text:

  1. Where was David when Saul died?  What had each of them been doing?  What do you remember about the circumstances surrounding Saul’s death?
  2. As 2 Samuel opens, a visitor arrives in David’s camp.  How is he described?  What does he do?  What news does he have?  How does that compare with the account at the end of 1 Samuel?
  3. What question does David have for him?  How does he respond?  Do you think he knew where David had just come from?  How does David respond to this man?
  4. How does David view the deaths of Saul and Jonathan?  What does he do?  Why does he not want the news told in Gath or Ashkelon?
  5. How does David describe Saul and Jonathan?  What was his relationship like with each of them during their life?  What does this say about David?

The Application:

  1. What do you know about David’s reign as King?  What do you hope to learn or understand more fully through a study of 2 Samuel?
  2. How tempting is it to tell news of an event based on how you believe your listener wants to hear it?  What problems exist with that approach?
  3. Have you ever given an answer to someone when you’ve not known the context of the question?  How hard is it to listen and research before speaking?  Why?
  4. How protective are you of the reputations of your friends?  How about with those who have acted like enemies toward you?
  5. Knowing the relationship between Saul and David through much of 1 Samuel, how hard do you think it was for David to genuinely mourn Saul’s death?  When do you think David’s mourning for Saul began?  How does this show in his words about Saul and Jonathan?  Are there people you mourn for that are still living?  What can you do about it?

Next week:  Families Feud
2 Samuel 2