The following are discussion questions from a weekly study I am leading through the book of 2 Samuel. We meet each Wednesday evening at the Deer Run Church of Christ.
A Man After God’s Own Heart:
The Good, The Bad, and The Ugly
A Study of the Book of 2 Samuel
Lesson 14 (Coming Home)
2 Samuel 14
December 12, 2012
- What did Joab know about the king? Who did Joab enlist to help him? What story did Joab give to be told to the king? How does David respond to the story?
- After David responds to the story, who is he told the story is really about? What question does David have for the one telling the story? What answer is he given?
- Who does David give instructions to regarding Absalom? How does that person respond? What does it seem to say about where he was for all of this?
- Where does Absalom go when Joab brings him back to Jerusalem? What were David’s instructions regarding this? What was the reputation Absalom gained throughout Israel?
- How much time passed with Absalom not seeing the king? Why did Absalom send for Joab? What did Absalom do after Joab refused for a second time to come to him? What was his reasoning? What came of it?
- Have you ever found yourself in a situation that you wanted to be different but had reached a point that you didn’t know how to change the circumstances? Why is it important to involve wise people when dealing with conflict? How are you able to help people see necessary changes without them feeling a need to be defensive?
- How do stories help you see things in a bigger perspective than what otherwise might be noticed? How do you feel when confronted about something and you realize that someone else is behind it all? Should it matter?
- How hard is it to stay in the background when others are needed to speak on your behalf? How gracious are you when your requests are received well?
- How difficult is it to fully put the past behind you? Are there times when it is easier to keep a distance from the people of past situations to avoid the reminders?
- Do you ever get tired of waiting? How often do you avoid people because you know they will ask you do to something that you know someone else doesn’t want done? To what extremes would you go to be heard? Is partial reconciliation better than no reconciliation?
Next Week: I Can Be King!
2 Samuel 15